Side by side
Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel vs Not Your Mother's NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream
44% function match · 5 of the 13 functions we compared match Formula overlap 0%. Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel and Not Your Mother's NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream share no ingredient among each other's most prominent — which does not stop them doing the same job.
Which of these fits your hair?
We check your pattern, moisture need, scalp, fragrance tolerance, weight sensitivity and more against each formula — and say which one lines up.
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When each one is the right call
What each formula is built for, from its own ingredient list.
- Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel — maximum slip
- NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream — protein-sensitive hair
Side by side
Every trait, aligned
One row per trait, read from each product’s own ingredient list and record. A dash means we have not researched that field for that product — it is not a “no”.
Not Your Mother's
Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel
- Styler
- Drugstore
- Silicone-free
- Strong hold
Not Your Mother's
NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream
- Styler
- Drugstore
- Sulfate-free
- Silicone-free
- Maximum slipfor hair that tangles the moment it is wet
- Curl definitionfilm formers hold a clump together
- Silicone-free routinesno silicones appear in the list
- Stretching wash daysnothing here needs a detergent to remove
- Protein-sensitive hairthat stiffens when protein is added
- Curly-method routinesno sulfates and no water-insoluble silicones
- Curl definitionfilm formers hold a clump together
- Silicone-free routinesno silicones appear in the list
- Scents bother youthis product carries a scent
- Sulfate-free routinesit uses a sulfate detergent
- Anyone who dislikes a castthe film formers here can set firm
- Scents bother youthis product carries a scent
More facts about each one
- silicone-free
- sulfate-free
- silicone-free
- protein-free
- curly-method compatible
Facts as we recorded them. A dash means we have not researched that field for that product — it is not a "no".
The bottom line
The bottom line depends on your hair
Which of these two suits you is a question about your hair, not about them. The consultation answers it — and tells you what your routine needs around it.
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The detail behind the table
Where the readings above come from: the ingredient lists themselves, each brand’s claims checked against them, what owners report, and cost per ounce in context.
Shared and distinct ingredients
Shared and distinct ingredients
Computed from the ingredient lists as printed. "Shared" means both lists carry it; where it sits on each label is stated, because position is what tells you how much.
What both formulas carry
What only one of them carries
Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel
NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream
Full ingredient list — Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel (24)
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1
Water
- solvent
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2
Polyquaternium-69
- conditioning agent
- film former
- polymer
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3
PVP
- film former
- polymer
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4
Acrylates/Steareth-20 Methacrylate Crosspolymer
- film former
- polymer
- Below about this point, order stops being meaningful — these are typically used at 1% or less.
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5
Phenoxyethanol
- preservative
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6
Glycerin
- humectant
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7
Keratin Amino Acids
- protein
- amino acid
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8
Oryza Sativa (Rice) Extract
- botanical extract
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9
Lactobacillus/Tomato Fruit Ferment Extract
- botanical extract
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10
Leuconostoc/Radish Root Ferment Filtrate
- preservative
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11
Acyl Coenzyme A Desaturase
- active
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12
Fragrance
- fragrance
- declared fragrance
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13
Sodium Hydroxide
- pH adjuster
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14
Tetrasodium EDTA
- hard-water chelator
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15
Ethylhexylglycerin
- preservative
- emollient
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16
Sodium Lauryl Sulfate
- sulfate cleanser
- cleanser
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17
Sorbic Acid
- preservative
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18
Butylene Glycol
- humectant
- solvent
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19
Iodopropynyl Butylcarbamate
- preservative
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20
Sodium Benzoate
- preservative
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21
Citronellol
- fragrance
- named fragrance allergen
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22
Limonene
- fragrance
- named fragrance allergen
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23
Hydroxycitronellal
- fragrance
- named fragrance allergen
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24
Linalool
- fragrance
- named fragrance allergen
Full ingredient list — NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream (12)
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1
Water
- solvent
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2
Hydrolyzed Corn Starch
- film former
- starch
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3
Polyacrylamide
- film former
- polymer
- thickener
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4
C13-14 Isoalkane
- emollient
- solvent
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5
Shea Butter Ethyl Esters
- light ester
- emollient
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6
Laureth-7
- emulsifier
- solubilizer
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7
Mangifera Indica (Mango) Seed Butter
- butter
- emollient
- Below about this point, order stops being meaningful — these are typically used at 1% or less.
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8
Fragrance
- fragrance
- declared fragrance
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9
Tetrasodium Glutamate Diacetate
- hard-water chelator
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10
Phenoxyethanol
- preservative
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11
Ethylhexylglycerin
- preservative
- emollient
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12
Citric Acid
- pH adjuster
- hard-water chelator
Claims check
What each brand says, against what each formula shows
Claims are quoted from each brand. We only mark one supported, partly supported, or conflicting when that product’s ingredient list actually speaks to it.
Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel
Extra strong hold for lasting definition and frizz control
SupportedStructure that lasts the day.Hydrating formula leaves curls touchable, never crunchy or flaky
SupportedHelps hair feel hydrated.Silicone free, paraben free, and phthalate free
SupportedNothing that needs a strong wash.Drying alcohol free
SupportedNothing that flashes off dry.
NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream
Curl enhancing and defining
Stated by brandCan’t be confirmed from label.Anti-frizz
SupportedSmoother strands, less frizz.Tear-free and dermatologist tested
Stated by brandOnly the brand’s testing shows this.98% Naturally Derived
Stated by brandOnly the brand’s testing shows this.For All Curl Types
Stated by brandSee the fit panel instead.Sulfate surfactant free, silicone free, paraben free, drying alcohol free, allergen free, dye free, gluten free, cruelty free, and vegan
SupportedNothing that needs a strong wash.
What owners say
What people report
Recurring themes our researchers wrote in their own words from sourced reviews. We do not store or scrape star ratings, and we never balance one product’s themes against another’s by inventing them.
Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel
Several reviewers praise the pleasant scent and value, noting the bottle lasts a long time since a little product goes a long way.
A minority of reviewers say the hold is stronger than they wanted, leaving hair -- and sometimes the scalp -- feeling dry or stiff.
Many reviewers say this gel sets quickly into a strong, long-lasting hold that keeps curl definition for multiple days without redoing their hair.
NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream
A recurring complaint is that the cream dries out hair and leaves a waxy residue that pills or flakes, taking several washes to fully remove despite being marketed as moisturizing.
Some parents of kids with very curly or frizzy hair say the cream did little to define curls or control frizz for that texture.
Several reviewers describe the cream as smooth and lightweight with a pleasant scent, saying it effectively defines and holds their kids' curls all day.
Price check
Cost per ounce, in context
Cost per ounce against every product of this type we have priced, each at the size it is most often sold in. Value labels are computed from that percentile and from how many products that do the same job cost less; they are comparisons, not judgements about a brand.
$1.17/oz vs $1.83/oz — Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel costs about 1.6× more per ounce than Not Your Mother's NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream.
Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel
Against 157 gels with a computable unit price.
NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream
Against 105 curl creams with a computable unit price.
Computed from cost per ounce against every product of this type we have priced, and from how many products that do the same job cost less. It is a comparison, not a judgement about the brand.
Compare with something else
Close formulas to each of these, as their own comparison pages.
Curl Talk Lasting Definition Flash Freeze Gel · NYM Kids Curly Care Curl Defining Cream · All gels in the library
How this page was made
- This page is assembled from the same researched records the individual product pages render: identity, each ingredient list as printed, each brand's own claims, dated price observations, and review themes written in our researchers' own words. Nothing on it is written per comparison.
- We do not rank these against each other. Which of them suits you depends on your hair, and that is what the consultation works out.
- The formula similarity percentage is a stored, precomputed number: position-weighted overlap of the two ingredient lists blended with agreement on the attributes we derive. It measures how alike two formulas are, not how well either works.
- The value band is a fixed label over two stored numbers: this product’s cost per ounce as a percentile of every product of this type we have priced, each at the size it is most often sold in, and how many products we score as doing the same job cost at least a quarter less per ounce.
- The "Is this right for you?" panel reads only your own consultation answers, and it applies exactly the filters our recommendation engine applies. It is computed when you load the page and is never stored on it.
- 8 sources were consulted across the products on this page.
- Ingredient order tells you relative amount only above roughly 1%. Prices are observations on the dates shown and change without notice. We do not sell these products and take no placement fees.
- This is cosmetic information, not medical advice, and nothing here diagnoses or treats a health condition.
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