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Not Your Mother's All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick vs Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard

52% function match · 6 of the 13 functions we compared match Formula overlap 0%. Not Your Mother's All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick and Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard share no ingredient among each other's most prominent — which does not stop them doing the same job.

Based on your consultation

Which of these fits your hair?

We check your pattern, moisture need, scalp, fragrance tolerance, weight sensitivity and more against each formula — and say which one lines up.

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When each one is the right call

What each formula is built for, from its own ingredient list.

  • All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick — protein-sensitive hair
  • Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard — protein-sensitive hair

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Every trait, aligned

One row per trait, read from each product’s own ingredient list and record. A dash means we have not researched that field for that product — it is not a “no”.

Trait
Not Your Mother's All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick — 1.25 oz container Not Your Mother's

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick

  • Styler
  • Drugstore
  • Sulfate-free
  • Silicone-free
Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard — container, alternate view Not Your Mother's

Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard

  • Styler
  • Masstige
  • Sulfate-free
  • Silicone-free
Price, size & price per ounce
$8–10 1.25 oz · $7.31/oz
$11–13 12 oz · $1.12/oz

Compared at different sizes — 12 oz against 1.25 oz. Per-ounce prices favour the larger bottle.

Value / price positioning
Priced with its peers $$$$$ Drugstore tier · costs less than 54% of the 92 pastes we’ve priced
Lower cost than most gels $$$$$ Masstige tier · costs less than 77% of the 159 gels we’ve priced
Best for hair types
Curly–Coily A heavy formula: coarse, curlier strands carry it without flattening. Your hair
Wavy–Coily Co-washes, curl creams, and gels are built around wave and curl. Your hair
Moisture level Differs
Moderate Humectants in the working part of the formula. Your hair
High Humectants near the top — water-binding is a headline mechanism here. Your hair
Hold (as stated)
Maximum A strong hold, as stated by the brand. Your hair
Strong A strong hold, as stated by the brand. Your hair
Slip / detangling Differs
Some Some slip, mostly from esters or silicones rather than conditioners. Your hair
Little Nothing here is built to reduce combing force. Your hair
Weight on hair Differs
Rich Heavy butters and waxes in the first eight ingredients. Your hair
Medium Middle of the range — noticeable on fine hair, light on coarse hair. Your hair
Fragrance
Prominent Fragrance sits in the first eight ingredients — a larger share of the formula. Your hair
Present Fragrance is listed; it sits below the working ingredients. Your hair
Protein Same
None No protein or amino acids in the list. Your hair
None No protein or amino acids in the list. Your hair
Silicone / wax buildup Differs
High Water-insoluble silicones or waxes: a detergent wash is what removes them. Your hair
None Nothing here needs a detergent wash to remove. Your hair
Clarifying wash needed
Moderate Your hair
Low Your hair
Hold system Differs
Wax Gums and synthetic polymers together. Your hair
Mixed Gums and synthetic polymers together. Your hair
Cast risk Same
Unlikely Softening ingredients sit alongside the film formers, so a hard shell is unlikely. Your hair
Unlikely Softening ingredients sit alongside the film formers, so a hard shell is unlikely. Your hair
Oil absorption Same
None No absorbent powders or starches. Your hair
None No absorbent powders or starches. Your hair
Oils and butters Differs
Present, high in the list Oils sit high in the list — a softening, coating formula. Your hair
Present, lower down Oils are present, but low enough to be a finishing touch. Your hair
Fast-drying alcohol Same
None No fast-drying alcohol in the list. Your hair
None No fast-drying alcohol in the list. Your hair
Formula completeness
out of 10
Complete for its job
out of 10
Complete for its job
Who should choose this
  • Protein-sensitive hairthat stiffens when protein is added
  • Curly-method routinesno sulfates and no water-insoluble silicones
  • Curl definitionfilm formers hold a clump together
  • Coarse or dry hairthat absorbs everything you give it
  • Protein-sensitive hairthat stiffens when protein is added
  • Curly-method routinesno sulfates and no water-insoluble silicones
  • Curl definitionfilm formers hold a clump together
  • Silicone-free routinesno silicones appear in the list
Why you might skip it
  • Scents bother youthis product carries a scent
  • Oily scalp or fine hairthat gets weighed down
  • Stretching wash dayswaxes stay until a detergent wash removes them
  • Scents bother youthis product carries a scent
  • Dry or very humid airwhere heavy humectants work against you
  • Soft, touchable finishesthe brand states a firm hold
from the formula stated by the brand reported by reviewers Scale: 1 dot low · 5 dots high, within this product type.
More facts about each one
Type
Stylerwax
Styler
Where to buy
Ulta · Target
Brand website · Grocery / mass
Free of
  • sulfate-free
  • silicone-free
  • protein-free
  • curly-method compatible
  • sulfate-free
  • silicone-free
  • protein-free
  • curly-method compatible
Vegan
Not vegan · label states
—
Scent
Scented, not described
Hold
maxMaximum hold
strong
Finish
shine
—
How often
as needed
—

Facts as we recorded them. A dash means we have not researched that field for that product — it is not a "no".

The bottom line

The bottom line depends on your hair

Which of these two suits you is a question about your hair, not about them. The consultation answers it — and tells you what your routine needs around it.

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The detail behind the table

Where the readings above come from: the ingredient lists themselves, each brand’s claims checked against them, what owners report, and cost per ounce in context.

Shared and distinct ingredients

Shared and distinct ingredients

Computed from the ingredient lists as printed. "Shared" means both lists carry it; where it sits on each label is stated, because position is what tells you how much.

What both formulas carry

IngredientAll Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax StickCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard
Fragrance
Fragrance
#7Below the 1% line
#13Below the 1% line
Limonene
Fragrance
#16Below the 1% line
#16Below the 1% line

What only one of them carries

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick

Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard

Full ingredient list — All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick (18)
Full ingredient list — Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard (21)

Claims check

What each brand says, against what each formula shows

Claims are quoted from each brand. We only mark one supported, partly supported, or conflicting when that product’s ingredient list actually speaks to it.

VerdictsAll Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax StickCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard
Supported
1
5
Partly supported
1
0
Stated by brand
3
0
Potential conflict
0
0

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick

  • Maximum holdPartly supportedSoft structure, not firm hold.
  • Long-lastingStated by brandCan’t be confirmed from label.
  • Locks in styleStated by brandCan’t be confirmed from label.
  • No flakes or unwanted residueStated by brandCan’t be confirmed from label.
  • Adds shineSupportedReflects light for visible shine.

Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard

  • Extends the length of your curls, while fighting frizz and adding shineSupportedSmoother strands, less frizz.
  • Flake-free, no crunch finishSupportedNatural movement without stiffness.
  • Silicone free and protein freeSupportedNothing that needs a strong wash.
  • Safe for color-treated hairSupportedLess fade per wash.
  • Firm holdSupportedStructure that lasts the day.

What owners say

What people report

Recurring themes our researchers wrote in their own words from sourced reviews. We do not store or scrape star ratings, and we never balance one product’s themes against another’s by inventing them.

Both praised for a light feel, hold, and a clean rinse-out. Not Your Mother's All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick draws complaints about weight and curl definition.

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick

Glides on effortlessly and tames flyaways without sticky or greasy residue

Ulta reviewer

Works well for slicked-back buns, ponytails, braids, and edge control that lasts all day

Target reviewer

Product size shrank (shrinkflation) compared to before

Ulta reviewer, repeat purchaser

Very hard to wash out, leaves white clumps requiring multiple shampoos

Target reviewer

Leaves fine hair looking greasy

Ulta reviewer with fine hair

Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard

Delivers exceptional curl definition with a reliable hold that keeps curls visibly defined and structured throughout the day without excessive crunchiness.

Reviewers with naturally curly hair who used the custard for styling and found it provided the hold and definition they needed.

Creates visibly hydrated and well-defined curls with a non-greasy feel, making curls look healthier and more polished without weighing them down.

Reviewers who noticed their curls looked and felt better defined, hydrated, and lighter after using the product.

Provides a versatile hold that can be easily broken through the week or refreshed with light products, allowing curls to move and stay softer without feeling locked.

Reviewers who appreciated the flexible nature of the hold, which does not create a rigid or hard cast on the curls.

Requires hand dipping to apply from the jar, which some reviewers find inconvenient for professional or frequent use, though it remains effective for personal use.

Professional curly hairstylist who appreciated the product's performance but found the jar packaging required workarounds for client application.

Price check

Cost per ounce, in context

Cost per ounce against every product of this type we have priced, each at the size it is most often sold in. Value labels are computed from that percentile and from how many products that do the same job cost less; they are comparisons, not judgements about a brand.

$1.12/oz vs $7.31/oz — Not Your Mother's All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick costs about 6.5× more per ounce than Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard.

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick

Against 92 pastes with a computable unit price.

Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard

Against 159 gels with a computable unit price.

Value readAll Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax StickCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard
Label
Priced with its peersSits in the middle of the range for pastes per ounce.
Lower cost than most gelsCosts less per ounce than most gels we have researched.

Computed from cost per ounce against every product of this type we have priced, and from how many products that do the same job cost less. It is a comparison, not a judgement about the brand.

Compare with something else

Close formulas to each of these, as their own comparison pages.

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick vs Hair Wax Stick For Strong HoldBed Head · 96% function matchCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard vs Custard For KidsCurlyKids · 96% function matchAll Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick vs Miracle Styling Smooth & Sleek Wax StickTGIN · 94% function matchCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard vs Curl Defining Mousse - 6.8 ozRizos Curls · 96% function matchAll Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick vs Men Waves PomadeSheaMoisture · 93% function matchCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard vs Unapologetic Define, Style & Hold MousseORS · 96% function matchAll Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick vs DART Pomade StickR+Co · 93% function matchCurl Talk Defining Gel Custard vs L.A. HOLD Styling GelGiovanni · 96% function match

All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Wax Stick · Curl Talk Defining Gel Custard · All pastes in the library

How this page was made

  • This page is assembled from the same researched records the individual product pages render: identity, each ingredient list as printed, each brand's own claims, dated price observations, and review themes written in our researchers' own words. Nothing on it is written per comparison.
  • We do not rank these against each other. Which of them suits you depends on your hair, and that is what the consultation works out.
  • The formula similarity percentage is a stored, precomputed number: position-weighted overlap of the two ingredient lists blended with agreement on the attributes we derive. It measures how alike two formulas are, not how well either works.
  • The value band is a fixed label over two stored numbers: this product’s cost per ounce as a percentile of every product of this type we have priced, each at the size it is most often sold in, and how many products we score as doing the same job cost at least a quarter less per ounce.
  • The "Is this right for you?" panel reads only your own consultation answers, and it applies exactly the filters our recommendation engine applies. It is computed when you load the page and is never stored on it.
  • 8 sources were consulted across the products on this page.
  • Ingredient order tells you relative amount only above roughly 1%. Prices are observations on the dates shown and change without notice. We do not sell these products and take no placement fees.
  • This is cosmetic information, not medical advice, and nothing here diagnoses or treats a health condition.

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